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Unfortunately, I'm not sure that you can, unless you are willing to give oral sex. I had a baby at 39 and after her my body hasn't been the same. My once voracious appetite for sex is now replaced with "I couldn't care less". My sex drive is about nothing, and I force myself to have sex with my husband once in a while "just to keep him happy". I used to enjoy the act so much, so I am beginning to think it is something hormonal for me, and it could be for you too. We are at an age where we are starting to go through changes, so it may not be our faults.
I would suggest that you see either your gyno or your family doctor and tell them what is going on. Maybe there is a supplement or hormone replacement they can give you to enhance your sex drive. Men need physical contact (sex) to stay content, and I don't know about you but I love my husband and I don't want to lose him, but I'm afraid I will if I do not start getting back in to the act soon.
Also, trying to find ways to make sex new and exciting again can really help. What happens sometimes is you just get so used to it with the person you are with that it actually is not any "fun" anymore. Try to find things that will add some spice and see if that helps also.
Just some suggestions from someone who is terrified that she is going to lose her husband because of this reason.
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